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Disruptive Social Media

The Disruption Paradox: Why “Disruptive” Content Shouldn’t Feel Disruptive at all. 

The word “disruptive” gets thrown around in social media circles, disruptive marketing, disruptive content, disruptive strategies. When you’re creating from a place of genuine authenticity, nothing feels disruptive at all. It is rather very you, on brand, in your voice and unique to you and your ideas. 

True disruption doesn’t come from forcing yourself into uncomfortable molds or mimicking viral trends that don’t align with who you are. It comes from the radical act of being unapologetically yourself in spaces that often reward conformity.

When authentic creation feels natural:

• You’re not second-guessing every post before hitting publish
• Your content flows from your actual beliefs, experiences, and expertise
• You’re attracting people who resonate with your real message, not a manufactured persona
• The “disruption” happens organically because authenticity itself is rare

The truth about on-brand authenticity: Your brand isn’t what you decide it should be in a strategy meeting, it’s who you already are. When you stop performing and start showing up truthfully, your content naturally stands out. Not because you’re trying to be different, but because there’s only one you.

The most “disruptive” thing you can do in today’s social media landscape? 

Stop being anything other than what you are, that is enough disruption to create an entirely new experience for you and your ideal clients. 

A better question to this entire process is how does that translate to your team if you have one or if you have a variety of businesses or offers.  That is implementation and cohesion working together to create a robust brand.  

Let’s say you have a business and a personal brand: 

Your Business will feature more of your services or products.  Your teams and employees might be more involved over on that side, you will also depend upon the industry and your level of involvement.  

Let’s narrow this down a bit for simplicity:

You are the Owner/Broker of a Real Estate Firm. 

Best Practice would be to have business Social Media Profiles  for the RE Firm and Separate Social Media Profiles for Your Personal Brand.  

Do you have to do it this way? No you don’t but you truly should for people to get to know you more directly.  

Your personal brand has a couple of ideal clients. 

1. New Agents to Recruit 
2. Buyers and Sellers in Your Area 

Your Business page will have more of a central focus on your listings, your agents, and your company values. 

On your brand page we would focus more on you, your expertise what makes you the expert in  your area, why sellers, buyers, and new agents would choose you 10/10 times.  We would share your unique personality, your story, your family and lifestyle.  

This can be done in a variety of ways that allows you to maintain your comfort level of sharing while still creating a lot of engagement with people who are ready to get to know more about you.  

We would cross post with your business and vice versa.  This is where you are pumping up your audience and encouraging others to follow the business if they don’t and follow you if they don’t.  Adding a face to the owners of the business creates a lot of trust in content and allows the owner to establish deep authority in their Brand. It is a strong mirror.  This is useful in many areas of the customer journey and not to be taken lightly.  

I would say as someone who has studied this for years, the biggest mistake I see is when an owner is silent on their social media pages and also has not developed a personal brand for themselves.  This could be considered an air of exclusivity, but from my perspective what it says is I am too busy to share my wins and losses with my community.  

If people buy from people they know, like and trust and all they see is a business page with numerous new listings, coming soon, or under contract it becomes a boring, ignorable business page. Your templates become quickly scroll past.  We still want to share those things but we want to do that in a way that is more engagement worthy.  Encouraging comments, dm’s, likes and engagement.  

For the Brand Side, the owner content will need to have the owner/founder in it.  This can scare some owners, however there are numerous ways to make this work while they gain confidence or desire to be more public with their Brand.  B-roll is one of my favorites which I talk about endlessly.  

We have established what an owner/founder and business looks like social media wise but how does that translate into the team knowing what to post, how to post or creating the strategy.  This is usually where shit goes sideways.  

I’m going to be really direct here- even if you staff is stateside not offshore, They usually do not have enough time to train on how much goes into a solid social media strategy business or brand wise.  All hope is not lost though.  That is where consultants or outside strategists can really help solidify for your team.  

If you don’t have a team, hiring out is also great or having a strategist like myself coach you through it and help you learn your hero channel and what to do with it from there. 

Section 2 

Three Ways Over-Polished Kills Connection (Whether It’s AI or Templates)

1. The Uncanny Valley Effect

Even when templated videos look “good,” something feels off. The too-perfect lighting, the flawless consistency, the absence of anything unexpected—our brains are hardwired to detect these patterns.

It’s not just AI that triggers this response anymore. Overly templated content does too.

When every video has:

• The exact same framing
• The exact same background
• The exact same aesthetic
• The exact same energy

…your content starts feeling manufactured, not human.

2. The Connection Gap

Videos work because they create parasocial relationships. We connect with imperfections, the nervous laugh, the stumble over words, the dog barking in the background, the genuine smile that reaches the eyes, the hair that looks different because you actually live your life between posts.

Neither AI nor rigid templates can replicate the vulnerability that creates true connection.

What templates strip away:

• The spontaneity of recording when inspiration hits
• The realness of your actual environment
• The variety that comes from being a multi-dimensional human
• The beautiful imperfection of just showing up

3. The Trust Erosion

Once your audience suspects you’re either using AI or leaning so heavily on templates that you’re not really present, trust evaporates.

They wonder:

• “If you’re not actually here, what else isn’t real?”
• “Are these even your real opinions, or are you just filling a template?”
• “Do you actually believe this, or are you following a content formula?”
• “Is there a real person behind this brand?”

The Solution: Be a Touch Less Polished and a LOT More Real

Here’s your permission slip to mess up the aesthetic in service of authenticity:

Switch up your background

• Film in different rooms
• Take your phone outside
• Record from your car, your couch, your kitchen
• Let people see that you exist in multiple spaces

Vary your colors

• Stop using the same “brand colors” in every video
• I personally have over 10 colors in my brand for this very reason
• Vary colors, fonts, and vibes in each video 

Change your clothes (and your hair!)

• Different outfits signal different days, different moments
• Hair up, hair down, messy bun, fresh blowout, it’s all real
• Batching is great but toss in some real moments too of general day to day stuff

Embrace the unpolished moments

• Don’t edit out every “um” and pause- I almost never edit my talking heads
• Let your kids interrupt
• Keep the genuine laughter
• Show the behind-the-scenes mess

Break your own template

• If you always do trending audios, try speaking directly to camera
• If you always talk to camera, try a voiceover with B-roll
• If you always use the same format, surprise your audience
• Keep them guessing, in a good way

What People Are Craving

In an increasingly AI-saturated, template-obsessed world, humans are yearning for MORE REAL, not less:

✓ Your actual face in different lighting (perfect ring lights aren’t required)
✓ Your real voice with its unique quirks and inflections
✓ Your genuine reactions and unscripted moments
✓ Your presence, messy and human and varied
✓ Proof that you’re a real person living a real life between posts
✓ Content that feels like a conversation, not a production

While AI and templates promise to save time and scale your presence, they actually undermine the very thing that makes social media valuable, human connection.

You’re not saving time; you’re losing trust.

You’re not looking more professional; you’re looking less real.

You’re not scaling connection; you’re automating it away.

The Massive Opportunity Right Now

This AI and template saturation creates an enormous opening for creators willing to show up authentically.

As everyone else:

• Automates their content
• Optimizes their aesthetic
• Templates their personality
• Polishes away their humanity

You can differentiate simply by being inconsistently, messily, beautifully human.

Change your background. Switch up your look. Let your content reflect the fact that you’re a living, breathing person who doesn’t exist in a perfect template.

Your “imperfect” content will outperform their “perfect” content every single time, because yours will feel and feeling creates more movement than polished every will.